If you have problems with open love and sexuality, then this is a mental disorder that you have, not the other way around. If you have a mental disorder as all Karrens or the perpetually offended tend to have, then you have less right to enforce an opinion on others.  In nature, less capability means less important and deficient in the order of things. In other words keep up with the more talented or keep your ignorant and inferior mouths shut. You can learn from the best only if you know your place and follow their examples.